Through two failed in-vitros, numerous miscarriages, and a failed adoption, we now have the best family EVER!
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Today's a Bad Day
After dinner it was time to come home and give the 3 shots. Amy has not been feeling good this week and has been very uncomfortable. Tonight, I got through the first 2 shots and Amy started crying because she is tired of the shots and is frustrated that we have to go through this process. I could really tell that they were hurting her tonight and felt so bad for her. We got the last shot taken care of so we can move on until tomorrow. I took her to get a snow cone after her shots, and she felt better.
Today, I am thankful for Amy's grandmother and the close proximity to us. Today's song of the day is "You are The Best Thing" by Ray Lamontagne. It is my favorite song of his and reminds me of Amy every time I hear it.
Z
Monday, June 29, 2009
Right on Track
After grudging through the work day, we had a nice dinner with our friends Scott and Neilly. They had us over for dinner, and it was great. Because they live close, we were able to take tonight's shot with us and it stayed cool until 8:00. Now, that the shots will be increased to three I don't think we will be able to get away from the house transporting the shots. Today, I am thankful for my wife's selflessness. She endures so much to give us this chance. She is pretty amazing to say the least! Today's song is "Take me to the River" by Al Green. It is one of those songs that you can listen to over and over without it getting old.
Z
Sunday, June 28, 2009
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM!
Before mom's birthday, we went to church with a childhood friend of mine, Kara, and her family. It was a very small Church of Christ church, and the members were so friendly. It was a lovely church. I think that we miss instruments, though! Tomorrow is our big "baseline" ultrasound. It will tell us how far along I am in building my uterine wall (gross, I know) and what dosage of hormones they want to put me on. Today, when I was reviewing our calendar, we noticed that we are only 2 weeks away from retrieval. That is crazy. I cannot believe it is right around the corner! I also found out that my Aunt Jan and Barb are coming in from Chicago July 24th. Perfect timing! Hopefully we are celebrating a positive pregnancy test! My results will be sometime between the 24th and 26th! Also, our friends Amy & Dave are coming in to celebrate that weekend with us! Yea! Surrounded by great people! Have a great Monday! ~Amy
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Sunburned and Exhausted!
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Needless to say, we are sunburned and exhausted. After we were done, we went to *of course* the snow cone stand and my husband got Spiderman. It really was delicious. It was a sweet moment because when he was finished with it, his lips and teeth were purplish/blue and he was so happy. I thought to myself, I want our sons to be just like you. Debby, if you are reading this, THANK YOU for raising an amazing man.
The song, that has to be on my mind today is "Heatwave" by the Supremes... I think it is fitting! ~Amy
Friday, June 26, 2009
Funky Monkey
Today was a good day. Hot, but good. My office is mourning the loss of Michael. I am pretty sad as well. I remember the Thriller poster that I had above my bed as a small child and how I would kiss it before bed and tell Michael I loved him. He was such a lost soul. My husband and I are preparing ourselves for "Hades Day" tomorrow. We plan to do a TON of yard work. Sure, the morning sounds like a good time, but we have errands that have to get done in the morning. For instance, we are going to the OSU/OKC Farmers Market. I am choosing to go there over the Edmond one, because when I went there 2 weeks ago, there were produce stickers on the fruit and vegetables. I choose to support local, homegrown products! What am I thankful for today? The ability to be able to buy organic products without chemicals!!! Then, we have to go to "Cow-town" (Lord, help me) to find my mother's birthday gift. Sure, I bet you are confused... My mom and Cow-town, do not mix. There is a Native American jeweler down there who "allegedly" has a red coral necklace. We will see. I did find one at a local OKC jeweler, but it was over $1000. I love my mom, but my pocketbook doesn't love that! The song that made me smile today is "Right as Rain" by Adele because it is wonderful. It calms me!
After having dinner, and a snow cone with Ed, he came over and we got on Facebook to look at things. Luckily, he remembered my shot at 8 o'clock on the dot. Yeah. 1st time this week! Ed helped us decide that we liked our new office curtains, and then decided to drive back to Norman. We will probably go to bed now, because the 100+ weather will surely wear us out!
~Amy
Thursday, June 25, 2009
What a Sad Day, Michael's Dead and I am Bloated...
So besides all of that, today has been pretty relaxing. We went to an Essential Oil presentation. It truly is amazing. The couple that hosted it are both 75, and not on a single medication! They are so active and healthy. These oils were used in biblical times, and are meant to maintain healthiness. I think we are hooked. On the way home, we stopped by and got a snow cone. Hi, my name is Amy and I am a snow cone addict. Seriously. Jeff, I blame you for this. My husband's friend Jeff introduced me to the snow cone stand in Edmond, that is so delicious, and I can't stop. I will eat veggies and fruit for dinner to consume calories in snow cone syrup. Sick, isn't it? Today, I am thankful for the person whom created snow cones.
Anywho... the shots are making my skin get a little sensitive. Not that I can't handle it, at least I have not had headaches! Here is what is happening though, I am BLOATED! Not just a little, tremendously bloated. Pants that I buttoned Tuesday, I cannot even button. Not real fun when it is 103 degrees. I might wear knit pants to work tomorrow. Thank you, Brad Henry, for letting Friday be casual days. Usually it is jeans, but hmm... Heat + bloat + denim? Not so sure about that! Monday is my ultrasound and Tuesday starts hormones! I cannot believe that part of it is already here. Do you realize I will know if I am pregnant in less than 35 days? INSANE!
What song is my song today? Obviously it is a song from the King of Pop, so I will go with my favorite. P.Y.T. Great, great song! ~Amy
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Whoops
Amy and I both had dentist appointments today. I got off easy with just a cleaning. Amy, on the other hand, had to have two cavities filled. It has been nearly four hours and half of her face is still numb. From there our evening took off. We made a trip to Sam's and loaded up. Then, the heat required a stop at the local snow cone stand. I went with tigers blood and Amy had Bahama mama. They were delicious. We were home by 7:30 leaving plenty of time to get Amy's shot ready. However, we were watching tv and lost track of time. At 8:33 we were discussing tomorrow night's shot. We have a meeting in Edmond at 7:00 and are not sure if we will be home in time. It then occurred to us that we had not given today's shot. I can't believe that neither of us remembered.
Beyond being thankful for my amazing wife today, which I am everyday, I am thankful for the medical technology that gives Amy and I opportunity and hope. It is almost incomprehensible to think that a doctor can remove a single cell from a three day old embryo and assess the genetic information. What will be possible 40 years from now? The song of the day is my favorite new country song Chicken Fried by the Z Brown Band. As Amy would say you can take the boy out of the country, but you can't take the country out of the boy.
Z
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
The Best Day of Our Life in June 2009
So when I was thinking yesterday that we had nothing to do tonight, I forgot three things. 1. I am still in search of my mother’s birthday gift 2. I have to make some returns so I can make sure I get full credit and 3. I have a presentation tomorrow at the office that I need to get ready for. What does this mean? This means that there was no resting tonight. When my husband got home, we went to some stores to get this accomplished, however, still no gift for my mother. The only bit of good news out of all of this? We will have nothing to do tomorrow. The extra exciting part is So You Think You Can Dance will be on, so I can cook dinner, and we can veg out. It is always easier to relax when there is a show on that we like to watch. He only watches it because he enjoys the “popping” and “hip-hop” dances. My husband; he loves the urban world. I tried to make him take ballroom dance lessons with me when we first met, but he did not oblige. I think if I wanted to take him to a pop-and-lock class, he so would. He is so hilarious.
Best song today? “September” by Earth, Wind, and Fire. Why? It is another one of our favorites! This song makes us dance. Any wedding, party, or social gathering where this is playing, prepare yourself for the Bradt’s on the dance floor! But that’s not all!!!! The really exciting thing is we are going to see them August 22nd live! Can’t wait! ~Amy
Monday, June 22, 2009
Is it Bedtime Yet???
So, the last couple of days have been so sad. First, the experience with the children at the shelter, and then today I spoke to a lady who is paralyzed due to a gun shot wound to her head. Apparently, her husband was not happy with her at the moment and shot her directly in her head. Unreal. What am I thankful about today? Easy…My husband. I don’t even have to go into detail about that one. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE my husband!
I have tried to immensely cut down on caffeine, so my ½ cup of coffee this morning is all I have had, and I have been on the go from 7:30 until now. The song that made my day today… “Tricky” by Run DMC! Classic! I have had my I-pod in most of the day, set on repeat, just “kickin’ it old school”. It also makes me think of the movie, White Chicks, which makes me laugh. Yeah, I love cheesy movies. ~Amy
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Happy Fathers Day!
Saturday, June 20, 2009
I am E-X-H-A-U-S-T-E-D!
This go around of in-vitro is so much different than the last. Last time I was militant about no caffeine, no wine, not being busy, shots at the EXACT time each night, etc... Obviously that did not work out for us. This time, it is like it is not even happening (if that makes any sense). I am going on with my everyday life and leaving it in God's hands. If the last round taught us anything, it is that we do not have control of our destiny. It is up to Him to give us what He thinks is best... and I PRAY that it a child, or children via this process!
Tonight, I am so very thankful for my mother. Sometimes as I reflect on my "not-so-perfect" childhood, I really take for granted what a great job my mother did raising me, and how she never gave up. After spending the early afternoon with those children, I am grateful for a mother who truly loves me and always put me first. Thanks Mom! ~Amy
Friday, June 19, 2009
I Hate Grout!
Also today, I took one of those cheesy Facebook quizzes. This one made me smile. Here are the results:
A strong relationship based upon more than looks, you enjoy your partner's mind very much. You both have a strong political mind, and have an influence on those around you. The connection you share was written by a higher power. When you leave the party, people will be thinking you two are a match made in heaven.
Tonight's shot went really well. It was kind of a blur because my husband just got home with Pei Wei, Melanie and I were covered in powdered sugar and icing, and we were 10 minutes overdue. I basically turned around, cleaned the skin, and turned right back around to cake making. That is the one thing that I cannot stand about this first shot. It is high maintenance. It has to be administered at a certain temperature. We are going to have to miss an anniversary party that we were invited to because of it. The time of the party vs. the time of the shot, will just not work out. We waited until the last minute to back out, which I feel bad about, but I kept trying to think of ways to make it work. Ice in a cooler, one of those freezer bags, but then he was concerned about what to do with the medicine after the shot and on the way home. Just too much to worry about. Next time.
Which brings me to my thankful blurb of the day. I am thankful that we are able to do this again. As much of a pain in the rear it can be, and as emotional as it is, we have great support to help us achieve it. So many people never have this opportunity, I will be forever grateful.
My husband will probably have to blog tomorrow, I will be WARN OUT from my non-stop day!
~Amy
Thursday, June 18, 2009
2 Down, 22 More to Go!
So this go around, besides getting relaxing massages, I am also going to remain positive, and be thankful for something daily. What brings me joy? As I stated yesterday, music. So every day on our blog we are going to think of a song that makes both of us smile and share with all of you. Maybe it will make you feel better, too! So, day two’s song du jour is: “She’s a Bad Mama Jama” by Carl Carlton. Sure, I was 3 (My husband was still in “months”) when it was a hit, but thanks to my mom, I have always known good music. I grew up with music playing in our house, car, pool, anywhere we were. What a great form of expression- I could go on and on… Did I mention that he has come a long way? Funny side story, when we first met, I was listening to James Taylor. My husband, not knowing who he was, asked who sang the song I was listening to. When I answered, James Taylor, he asked who that was. Seriously??? I about died! Then when I explained that he is a musical legend that is in almost every household he thought I was lying. He had to ask my mom if she knew James Taylor…she laughed…he believed me. Back to the point, “She’s a Bad Mama Jama” is hilarious and has a great beat. Mama Jama? Where did that even come from? It is a great song for every woman to have in her back pocket and pull it out when you need a small lift! What am I thankful for today? I am thankful for a magnificent husband who is open minded, thus willing to try new things! (Like good music!!)
On to day three!
~Amy
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Weee'rrre Baaacckk!!
As we are blogging right now, we are listening to Adele, who is one of our favorite artists! I have hooked my husband on music. I truly believe a good song can brighten any sad moment! Music has always been a crutch for me and now him too! He needs something really positive right now, in fact, because the hot weather has got him in a CRANKY mood!! We would be happiest in a colder climate, or the tropics, but when the weather is hot and all you have is flat land to look at, awful! (Just a FYI... Southern Girl by Amos Lee is his new favorite, so he is getting in a better mood!)
I am really worn out today! I had to host a bridal shower for my friend, Sandra, at the last minute. She decided to get married this Saturday, last week. No, she is not pregnant. She is Mexican and having her traditional, Catholic wedding there in December. The US does not consider religious Mexican weddings a civil, legal wedding, so they have to marry here in the US as well. They were just planning on going to the Justice of the Peace once they were married, spiritually, in December, but her mother is in town from Mexico and they thought it would be nice to do it with an actual family witness. Nonetheless, they have planned a wedding in less than 10 days. It will be lovely! Well... except for the cake... my friend Melanie and I are going to make it... Pray for us! ;)
We are headed over to my mother's house for dinner tonight. We will have to hurry home because, I need to watch So You Think You Can Dance!
Everybody on their knees! We need all the help we can get!
Love,
Us
Monday, June 15, 2009
48 Hours Until this Starts Again!
The weekend came and went quickly! My dad and his wife stayed with us from Thursday until this morning. It was a really nice visit. My dad is battling bone cancer and it is really hard to see a man, that once was a professional football player, now be so weak. He has a tough, stubborn spirit though, so my hopes are very optimistic. Saturday night we went to my cousin’s house for dinner. Most of that side of my family, I have not seen in over 21 years. Isn’t that crazy? I have cousins that live 8 miles from me, but I barely know them. We vowed to make our relationship stronger. The highlight of rekindling with the fam was my cousins daughter, Jane Marie. Look how precious she is:
This coming Saturday could quite possibly be the busiest day of my life. I have a Junior League commitment, 2 birthday parties, an anniversary party and a wedding. Something’s got to give! Isn’t that weird how one minute you can be completely free and then everything happens on that day? You can have all weekend, but one day overbooks! Usually I could handle it, but since I will be on the shots, my attitude will not allow it! I wear out easily…
Wednesday, we will start blogging daily until I am pregnant! I know a lot of people have been asking me why we are not on as much anymore, but we really are not that exciting! I cannot wait until we can blog about the babies and add pictures and updates – how fun! Having a blog is such a great outlet to keep family and friends that are out of state afloat with your life. I am BLESSED to have my friend, Melodie, who introduced me to this!
Talk soon!
~Amy
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Meds are on Their Way!
On top of that, my dad and his wife are in town 2 days early so they are coming to a messy house. So be it. I am too tired and busy to worry about it. Wednesday night and Thursday night were going to be the time to get the house together before their arrival. Whoops.
Also, I will have an ultrasound on the morning of July 4th, so we will not be heading out for the holiday early! Oh well! When I get pregnant, that will be the last of my worries!!
Just keeping everyone up to date! ~Amy
Monday, June 8, 2009
Good to Go!
The good news is that I am right on schedule! My hormones levels are right on target. The dates that we have planned are a go! I am physically and mentally exhausted after my 6:30am-9:30pm day so I am heading to bed! ~Amy
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Remember When You Had to Take Naps?
Tomorrow is going to be the longest day ever for me! We have our first doctors appointment at 7:30am, then I work until to 5:30pm and have Junior League duties from 6-9pm! Do you remember when you had to take naps and did not want to? Oh! I wish I could nap now! Our doctor will be able to tell me how far along I am in the process of creating eggs. We will see if the dates that we are planning are on spot. I hope we are on for the time we are expecting, I am ready to get this show on the road!
My dad will be coming into town this week and will stay with us through the weekend. I feel bad because apparently harvest is late this year and my husband's family will be cutting wheat this weekend. We will not be able to help them. I actually enjoy harvest. It is peaceful... well for me... I drove the combine one time and it is too hard. Then I drove the wheat truck, and that was difficult because there are so many gears! I like to keep everyone hydrated and bring lunch. That was going to be my job this year. Yeah, I know what you are thinking... I am replaceable! Have a great week! ~Amy
Thursday, June 4, 2009
What a FUN Night! (Oh, and we have a calendar)
Tomorrow I am having a "girls day" with my husband's fam. His mother, grandmother, and aunt are coming to the city and we are going to lunch, shop for shoes, and maybe get a pedicure. I can't wait. They are a lot of fun. Tomorrow night, Scott and Neilly are coming over for dinner with baby Henry and baby Lucy (still in utero). Saturday I have to work (Boo!)... we have a health fair that I will be at. I am excited though, because it is with the aging population and I have come to find that is my niche. We are going to try a new church on Sunday, we are just not sure which one. Will we ever find our church home? Who knows. What I am excited about is seeing Mason on Sunday. I hope he has some more dance moves. (For those who forgot, Mason is the 3 year old that likes to show the ladies his mad dance skills).
Have I mentioned how lucky we are to have such a great group of friends? We have so much support through all of this and get calls, emails, and texts daily asking about shots, when we start, etc... SO... for those who are wanting to know.... We have a calendar!!! (Look on the right side) We will update it as we get more accurate dates. Last time I was spot on, so I will predict that it will be a lot like that. There are so many people pulling for us, and we feel it! WOW! We are blessed. You all will never know how much each and every one of you means to us. Fasten your seat belts, because the ride is about to begin again! ~Amy
Monday, June 1, 2009
Best Time Ever!
This week will be pretty slow for us, thank God! We need some time to decompress. We have been on the go non-stop for the past 3 weeks! Last night, when we got home, we felt like we were on vacation! We had not been at home, sitting down, watching TV in forever! Every night we have had something to do! We are excited for summer TV. My favorite, So You Think You Can Dance, and my husband's favorite, Big Brother, are on. I know what you are thinking… “Wow! They are really deep people”… but really, isn’t TV for entertainment? If I wanted to think, I would read a book!
And one more thing… Check out our roses! TLC plant food… can’t beat it!!