Jealousy should be a 4-letter word!

Ok ladies…. We need to talk!

I heard on the radio recently that a woman made her boyfriend put his cats to sleep because he bought them with his ex. Do you know the saddest thing about that? HE DID IT! Um, hello, where’s your spine??? I cannot imagine asking someone to do that! CRAZY! It got me thinking (that’s always dangerous) so I had to blog about this. Ladies, we need to unite! What is wrong with women today?!?! It’s time to regroup and quit being psycho! Here is what I have to say about it…

1. It is OK for your significant other to go to Hooters, the occasional “bachelor party location”, etc… I know, I know, you are worried about him looking at another woman; well… NEWSFLASH! He’s a man… he looks at other woman while at Wal-mart! They are naturally programmed to do that. It is just like us when we see the hottest pair of Louboutin’s on someone’s feet, it is natural. Get over it. By you tightening the leash on him, you are just giving him a reason….


2. It is OK for your significant other to speak to his ex. Look at it this way, Wow! He must be a nice guy! I am not sure about you guys, but I could probably run over my ex with my car… Anywho, they had something, they shared something, and there is nothing you will EVER be able to do about it.


3. Your significant other does not want to hang out with you all the time. Don’t take it personal, he just wants to be with the guys. Would you want him around 24-7? (Be honest…)


4. If he wants to go out of town to spend the weekend with his friends, let him. He is not randomly cheating on you, or going to get in any trouble. Trust me. He is around you all the time; a woman is the last thing he wants to be around! But, if he is cheating; why do you want him anyway? You can do better! That is what gets me! Women are always upset because he might be "up to no good"... then W-H-Y do you want him????? Hello?!?!?
   
   I just feel like it labels us as "pseudo-normal" women so it is time for all of us to come together and be “normal” again!! So, if you thought that any of the things I said above were things you would get jealous about, spend some time figuring out where your insecurities come from. It will be better for you and your relationship!
   
   Don’t you agree? ~Amy